Month: September 2025
When Eve left Russia nine years ago, she didn’t intend to build a new life in Paris. “It wasn’t really a decision about making France my ‘new home’,” she admits. “It was more of a transit point for further adventures — a transit point in which I got stuck a little.”
The adventure began with a degree programme she couldn’t find back home: Langues Étrangères appliquées aux Affaires Économiques Internationales. A semester in Toulouse had given her a taste of French life, and she returned determined to complete her studies there. Preparation, however, was minimal. “If learning Le Petit Prince by heart counts, then yes, I prepared. It also deserves an award for the worst possible preparation for living in France.”
First Impressions
Her arrival was a shock. “Despite the historical ties between Russia and France, I was staggered by how different our mentalities are. The French are deeply collectivist — there are rhythms and unspoken codes you’re expected to follow. If you want soup for breakfast or lunch at 3 p.m., you’re practically a delinquent.”
The language barrier quickly made itself felt. Eve’s carefully studied Saint-Exupéry French didn’t survive her first encounter with teenage slang. “French isn’t a language you just absorb by being surrounded by it. You need reading, grammar, writing — serious practice.” It took her two to three years to feel comfortable speaking, and about five to start thinking in French. “Even now, when I go to see a Molière play, I realise how far I am from truly mastering it.”
Life in the System
Then there was the administration. Every expat in France has their battle stories, but Eve could fill volumes. “Answering that question properly would require a very thick book — about the Nine Circles of Hell, with the French administration at the bottom of it.”
The same bureaucratic rituals extended to job hunting. “Finding work in Paris is a tedious process: the lettre de motivation, five or six interviews, endless formalities. But if you speak French and bring value, it isn’t impossible — just exhausting.”
Housing proved equally theatrical. “The garant system was a shock, and watching apartments disappear minutes after being listed was even worse. To find a place, you need to be quick, well-organised, and armed with a perfect dossier. It’s practically a sport.”
Finding Her Place
Eventually Eve found her corner of Paris in the 17th arrondissement, which she calls “the best location — low on tourists, but with plenty of life.”
Making friends, however, was another challenge. “If you want to make friends quickly, find expat communities. Period. Integrating into French society is very hard, especially if your French isn’t perfect. The French are selective about their friendships. To avoid being permanently the outsider, it helps to bond with people who are going through the same struggles — learning the language, battling the administration, adjusting to the culture. Those friendships are forged in the trenches, and they last.”
Nine years on, what was supposed to be a temporary stopover has turned into a Parisian chapter that refuses to close. Eve smiles at the irony: “I never really planned to stay. And yet, here I am.”
Renting in France comes with a certain romantic aura — cobbled courtyards, wrought-iron balconies, and the faint whiff of existential despair. But behind the shutters lurks a more sobering truth: as a tenant, you carry rather a lot of responsibility, and when things go wrong with your landlord, you’ll need both patience and paperwork.
Here’s what every tenant should know before they hand over their security deposit and their peace of mind.
The Sacred Inventory (État des lieux)
In France, the legal presumption is deliciously simple: everything is your fault. You are responsible for the apartment in its entirety, insured accordingly, and your liability is measured against two documents — the entry and exit inventories.
These inventories must match exactly if you hope to see your deposit again. A scratch here, a dent there, and suddenly you’re funding your landlord’s new parquet flooring. The paperwork may feel tedious, but it is, quite literally, your only protection.
Deposit Disputes
The landlord has two months after your departure to return the deposit. That’s the law.
They cannot hold it back for “normal wear and tear” (faded paint, softened sofa cushions, the honest erosion of Parisian living).
But beware: the deposit is not your last month’s rent. You must keep paying rent until the very end of your tenancy — France is particularly humourless on this point.
If the landlord withholds money, they must provide receipts or estimates. Should they decide to don their DIY overalls and fix things themselves, they can only claim the cost of materials, not their own “labour” (translation: no charging you €500 for an afternoon with a paintbrush).
When Things Escalate
If mould blossoms in the corners, the heating dies in January, or a window remains eternally cracked, what then?
- Report it: Start with the landlord, naturally, but if they remain unmoved, you can escalate to la mairie or la préfecture de police. Authorities can impose penalties, which usually gets a sluggish landlord moving.
- Withhold rent (carefully): The bold option. Technically possible, but riddled with procedural traps. The safest version is to pay the rent into a separate account that the landlord cannot access until repairs are made. Do this wrong, and you’ll find yourself cast as the “bad tenant” — not a role you want in French housing court.
- Seek mediation: Cheaper and faster than litigation, mediation through a local housing association can untangle many disputes.
- Take legal action: If nothing else works, the courts can compel a landlord to make repairs. It’s slow, but effective.
- Terminate the tenancy: When the property becomes genuinely uninhabitable and the landlord remains obstinate, you may have grounds to break the lease. Get a lawyer before you pack your boxes.
- Recover your deposit: If your landlord clings to your deposit like it’s a family heirloom, you can file a formal complaint or take legal steps to recover it.
Practical Advice
- Keep everything in writing — emails, registered letters, scribbled notes slid under doors.
- Take photos with timestamps.
- Collect witnesses if you can.
Think of it as compiling a dossier for the inevitable courtroom drama, should it come to that.
And remember: procedures can vary by department, so always check with local housing associations or lawyers before making bold moves.
Associations That Can Help
- Association de Défense des Habitants — lacnl.com (€70/year).
- Agence Nationale pour l’Information sur le Logement (ANIL) — anil.org.
Both can provide guidance, support, and occasionally, much-needed moral outrage on your behalf.
Final Thought
Living in Paris is rarely simple, and dealing with landlords is no exception. But armed with the right paperwork, a decent insurance policy, and perhaps the phone number of a good tenant association, you can survive – and even triumph – in the charming but unforgiving theatre of French property law.
If you’ve ever asked me about my skincare routine — here it is, finally written down in one place. I get this question a lot, and instead of repeating myself, I thought I’d share the full story of how it all started, what I actually do, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.
The YouTube Era That Started It All
Let’s rewind to my university days, when YouTube was the wild west of beauty content. This was the time of Makeup Geek tutorials, Blair Fowler’s hauls, and Zoella’s bedroom vlogs. I was watching all of it, wide-eyed.
Somewhere down that rabbit hole, I stumbled across Ruth Crilly’s A Model Recommends. And one day, she posted a vlog with Caroline Hirons, back then just “Caroline, the skincare lady,” long before book deals and cult status.
Her videos were simple: twelve minutes of straight monologue about drugstore cleansers and toners. No edits, no gimmicks. I was hooked. Caroline cut through the noise and made skincare feel logical.
That was my lightbulb moment. From then on, I treated her advice as gospel. I still adore her today.
The Rules I Still Live By
Caroline eventually published her “Routine Cheat Sheet”, and I followed it religiously. Fast-forward more than a decade, and the core principles haven’t changed:
- Sunscreen every single day. It’s the cheapest anti-aging trick out there.
- Double cleanse at night. With a proper flannel, always.
- Consistency is key. No constant stopping and changing.
- Active ingredients used with purpose. Retinol, acids, antioxidants (but not all at once).
- Chemicals rule. Sorry #cleanbeauty people.
Skincare Trends Come and Go
“Skin cycling,” “clean girl routine,” “glass skin”… every year there’s a new buzzword. Each season, a new hero product takes center stage. But in reality? The magic is in the boring stuff.
Cleanse. Moisturize. Protect. Repeat.
I’ve kept that rhythm going for over a decade.
My Routine
Morning:
- Cleanse
- Antioxidant serum (Vitamin C or something brightening)
- Moisturizer
- Sunscreen (always, usually Anthelios or Bioré)
Evening:
- First cleanse (to remove SPF/makeup)
- Second cleanse (to actually clean the skin)
- Active treatment (retinol or acid, alternating nights)
- Moisturizer, sometimes with a face oil if my skin is dry
Simple.
My Hero Products
Over the years I’ve tried hundreds of products, some amazing, some not amazing. But a handful have earned “hero” status in my routine:
- Biologique Recherche P50
- Embryolisse Crème Concentré
- Glossier Cleanser Concentrate
- Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair
- La Roche-Posay Anthelios (and sometimes Bioré UV Aqua Rich)
- The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%
- Dr. Hauschka Gesichtstonikum – a mist.
These are the products I always come back to, no matter how many launches I test.
Want More?
I could easily write separate reviews of the hundreds of cleansers, serums, and moisturizers I’ve tried over the years. But I’ll only do that if you actually want me to. Let me know in the comments or on Instagram and I’ll happily go full skincare nerd (you know it).