Category: Off Topic
Off-topic posts: thoughts, tangents, and ideas that don’t fit neatly into categories but are too tempting not to share. A mix of personal reflections and playful detours.
If you’ve ever asked me about my skincare routine — here it is, finally written down in one place. I get this question a lot, and instead of repeating myself, I thought I’d share the full story of how it all started, what I actually do, and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.
The YouTube Era That Started It All
Let’s rewind to my university days, when YouTube was the wild west of beauty content. This was the time of Makeup Geek tutorials, Blair Fowler’s hauls, and Zoella’s bedroom vlogs. I was watching all of it, wide-eyed.
Somewhere down that rabbit hole, I stumbled across Ruth Crilly’s A Model Recommends. And one day, she posted a vlog with Caroline Hirons, back then just “Caroline, the skincare lady,” long before book deals and cult status.
Her videos were simple: twelve minutes of straight monologue about drugstore cleansers and toners. No edits, no gimmicks. I was hooked. Caroline cut through the noise and made skincare feel logical.
That was my lightbulb moment. From then on, I treated her advice as gospel. I still adore her today.
The Rules I Still Live By
Caroline eventually published her “Routine Cheat Sheet”, and I followed it religiously. Fast-forward more than a decade, and the core principles haven’t changed:
- Sunscreen every single day. It’s the cheapest anti-aging trick out there.
- Double cleanse at night. With a proper flannel, always.
- Consistency is key. No constant stopping and changing.
- Active ingredients used with purpose. Retinol, acids, antioxidants (but not all at once).
- Chemicals rule. Sorry #cleanbeauty people.
Skincare Trends Come and Go
“Skin cycling,” “clean girl routine,” “glass skin”… every year there’s a new buzzword. Each season, a new hero product takes center stage. But in reality? The magic is in the boring stuff.
Cleanse. Moisturize. Protect. Repeat.
I’ve kept that rhythm going for over a decade.
My Routine
Morning:
- Cleanse
- Antioxidant serum (Vitamin C or something brightening)
- Moisturizer
- Sunscreen (always, usually Anthelios or Bioré)
Evening:
- First cleanse (to remove SPF/makeup)
- Second cleanse (to actually clean the skin)
- Active treatment (retinol or acid, alternating nights)
- Moisturizer, sometimes with a face oil if my skin is dry
Simple.
My Hero Products
Over the years I’ve tried hundreds of products, some amazing, some not amazing. But a handful have earned “hero” status in my routine:
- Biologique Recherche P50
- Embryolisse Crème Concentré
- Glossier Cleanser Concentrate
- Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair
- La Roche-Posay Anthelios (and sometimes Bioré UV Aqua Rich)
- The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%
- Dr. Hauschka Gesichtstonikum – a mist.
These are the products I always come back to, no matter how many launches I test.
Want More?
I could easily write separate reviews of the hundreds of cleansers, serums, and moisturizers I’ve tried over the years. But I’ll only do that if you actually want me to. Let me know in the comments or on Instagram and I’ll happily go full skincare nerd (you know it).
As someone who loves a good “buy it for life” moment, I thought the BÉIS Sports Backpack would be my new travel and work companion. The sleek black design, the promise of durability, and the price tag north of €100 were convincing enough to make me press “purchase.” I love a good deal, I snagged it for €98 instead of its usual €119.
As someone who tries to support women-owned businesses, I was drawn to BÉIS, the brand founded by Shay Mitchell. Her marketing is undeniably on point, which made the purchase even more appealing. After years of carrying a tote to work, like a “vraie Parisienne,” I had perfected the effortless, chic commuter vibe. Bag slung over my shoulder, my mobile phone in hand—but that oh-so-French style came at a cost. I started noticing my posture was becoming wonky. Switching to a backpack seemed like a kinder choice for my body in the long run, especially since I often brought my packed lunches to work most days of the week. I wanted something functional yet stylish, a balance of practical utility and understated cool that felt très moi.
Unlike so many other celebrity-backed brands, Shay Mitchell is not just the face of BÉIS, she’s actually the founder and acting CEO. Her involvement in the brand’s product design made me feel like I was supporting something authentic. One year later, I’m wondering: was I scammed by the marketing, or has “lifetime” taken on a whole new meaning?
NThe first year of ownership for this bag was nothing special: weekday commutes, carrying my MacBook Air, a charger, maybe a small notebook and my lunchbox. No rock climbing trips. Nor camping excursions. No yoga mats, just the humdrum of daily professional life. Despite this minimal use, the bag is falling apart. The shoulder strap stitching is unraveling and the inner lining is frayed and torn. I’m not sure if I should laugh or cry that a supposedly “premium” backpack couldn’t handle light use for even a full year.
So, I did what any annoyed millennial would do: I reached out to the brand. BÉIS’s customer service reps were quick to respond (thanks, Jemmy!) but less quick to resolve. Their policy? If you didn’t buy directly from their website, you’re out of luck. They advised mme to contact Revolve, the retailer I purchased it from. Cue the customer service ping-pong match.
Revolve’s response? A dismissive “this is normal wear and tear,” accompanied by a polite but hollow apology and a 10% discount code for my trouble. To recap: I spent over €98 on a backpack marketed as durable, used it lightly for one year, and now they are telling me that its rapid deterioration is “normal.” What exactly is the life expectancy of BÉIS products—a single rotation around the sun? The real kicker here is the disconnect between price and performance. A backpack in this price range should offer more than fleeting aesthetics; it should deliver on its promise of durability. Instead, I’m left with a fraying, dysfunctional bag and a discount code I have zero intention of using. Why would I want another BÉIS product when the first one failed so spectacularly?
This experience has me questioning the “quality guarantee” of so many modern brands. If we’re paying triple the price of a standard backpack, we should be getting triple the quality—or at least something that doesn’t unravel under the weight of a laptop. BÉIS’s branding might scream chic and reliable, but the reality is far less glamorous.
To BÉIS and other companies offering premium-priced products: your customers aren’t just paying for aesthetics. We’re paying for trust. If you can’t stand by your product, then don’t expect us to stand by your brand. A 15% discount code doesn’t fix a broken reputation.
As for me, I’ll be taking my search for a durable, high-quality backpack elsewhere. BÉIS might want to rethink what “buy it for life” means, because at this rate, it’s the lifetime of a fruit fly—not the customer—that they’re guaranteeing.
PS: If you’re curious about the discount codes I got, feel free to reach out—I’m happy to share!